Grief & remembrance
Whether it was yesterday or ten years ago, grief does not follow a calendar. Write a letter to the one you lost, or read words from people who understand.
Write a letterA place that does not rush you
People say “be strong” and “it will get better,” but they do not tell you what to do when a familiar smell stops you in the kitchen or a song changes the whole shape of the day.
Grief is not a problem to solve. It is something to move through—and the loneliest part is believing nobody else understands. Here, you can write without an appointment, a name, or a polished explanation.
Who are you missing?
You are not the only one
missing parent
Mom, I still open your contact and stare at it. I know no one will pick up, but seeing your name on the screen makes the world feel normal for two seconds. I got the job. I wish I could call and hear you say you knew I would.
Leave a notemissing parent
They called my name and everyone cheered. For one bright second I looked for you in the crowd. I wore the watch you gave me. I hope somehow that counts as having you there.
Leave a notepet loss
I still put my hand down when I pass the place where your bed used to be. I still save the last bite of my sandwich, and then I remember. You were the best part of every bad day. The house is too quiet without you, buddy.
Leave a notepet loss
You would climb onto my chest and purr like it was your job to keep me here. I hope you knew how many times you did exactly that. I hope you knew you were family.
Leave a notefriend
I thought there would be another coffee, another ridiculous voice note, another chance to tell you that you made the hard years survivable. Thank you. I am sorry. I miss you.
Leave a noteAnother door may fit